I’ve missed blogging. I’ve been following a number of
friends bloggers, and a few anonymous ones. Mostly I miss writing and sharing.
Today, after spending three hours in yet another hospital, I’m
ready to share with my friends and family my latest Medical news, which I have
carefully tried not to allude to on Facebook for a little over 4 weeks now… I
just wasn’t ready. And Facebook seems like a silly way to announce to the world
you’re going to have surgery.
I’ve been diagnosed with Fibrocystic Breast Disease, and I
have a total of five nodules/fibroadenoma’s in both breasts. Everything is
currently benign.
After ultra sounds, biopsy’s, blood work, examinations and
most of my “fun” money on co-pay’s and prescriptions, I have been scheduled for
an MRI and have a consultation with a surgeon in two weeks. I have now gotten
three opinions on the surgery, and although I am devastated to face multiple
scars on my breasts, I am convinced and resigned to the fact that this has to
happen.
Although pronounced benign, the common opinion is that the
tissue is a sitting housing for possible malignant grown in the future. And
with no known breast cancer on either side of the family, I wouldn’t be going
in for my first mammogram until I was forty. Although now I will have
radiological check ups every nine months until I am thirty, when I will have my
first mammogram.
*The reason I have not yet had one, is because for my age my
breast tissue is very dense, and only shows up white on a mammogram, which camouflages
the also white nodules.
Everything has escalated in one short month all the way to
surgery because I’ve been in consistent active pain the entire time. The MRI
(And possible spinal x-ray) will determine if there are any other factors
causing the pain, as they believe the level of pain to be inconsistent with the
fibroids. The pain in my back (I’ve also been seeing a chiropractor every week)
may or may not be related.
So. That’s that. I’m not sad, per say. I probably will be
devastated when I get my first look at the incision scars after surgery, but
right now I can’t think about that. I’m mostly angry that before today, meeting
with my new gyno, I felt like none of the radiological, primary care, or
pharmacists could get their story straight and talk to each other before
farming out the referrals, giving me conflicting prescriptions and advice and
all within 5-10 minute visits in and out. I am not a farm animal to be herded!
Gah. And I’m depressed. Everything hurts. Car rides – every bump in the road
depending my pain level is either uncomfortable to absolutely torturous. I can’t
SCUBA, obviously, as I can barely put on a bra without cringing, I cannot
fathom squeezing on a wetsuit and carrying 70 lbs of gear on my back. And with
impending surgery and recovery time my Holiday dive
plans are ruined, unless I over-do it, and SCUBA anyways. Which I am seriously
considering. Screw it, I’m already in pain, right?
I certainly welcome prayers and positive thoughts, but I’d
truly appreciate it if we could not speak about this on Facebook. There are
only a select few of close friends I know who will read this, and the other 250
friends on facebook don’t need to know :p
Thank you for reading, and for your concern. Love you all
much!
- A semi-drugged lunch breaker.
Thank you for sharing your story with us.
ReplyDeleteWe (all) support you.
Lean on us.
I cannot relate to what you are going through and will go through. All I can do is be your friend, offer to assist in any way that I can, and perhaps offer some words now and then that we can both pretend are profound. ;-)
I am not just saying this because it seems like the thing to say or sounds nice, I actually believe it -- you will be fine. You will heal. Life will be good.
This is one of those times in your life that you need to be strong. You have done it before so I know you can do it again.
I'm so glad you managed to get the second (and third) opinions. And I am SO glad you went and took control of the situation and are getting everything taken care of now. We don't want you in pain, and this is ridiculous. This is a practical issue- a quality of life issue. Surgery is scary, and scars are awful, but you can't live a normal life as things are now, and a ticking time bomb under your shirt is NOT okay. It's going to suck, but we're going to get you out and through this!
ReplyDeleteWhy are you and Matt not sharing expenses? He's your husband. You should not be struggling to pay for co-pays out of your "fun" allowance. You're partners, and you should be sharing finances on this. If you haven't discussed it, go discuss it. He's there to be your support, so let him be there! (In all ways).
You don't have to do this alone- so don't!
ReplyDeleteThank you for the update. You are made of tough stuff so I know you can kick this disease's butt! :) We are here for you...
ReplyDeleteDont be devastated by scars! Their awsome and make you who you are-kick ass...duh ;) I love you so much! I feel very lucky to have such a warrior in my life....I hope im a fragment of the inspiration you are to me xoxo
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